I am posting an item from
Fr. Hunwicke's Mutual Enrichment. The good father is an ex-Anglican priest in Oxford.
Epicurus and Euripides have Tea in Shrewsbury College
Regularly, twice a year, some British Government minister gives certain formulaic and ritual undertakings.
Apparently there is so much violence against girls - of thirteen years
or even as young as eleven - including a great deal of sexual violence
from boyfriends - that the government is going to take action. What sort
of action? Somehow reinforcing patterns of parental control? Ensuring
that parents know how their young are dressed and where they're going
and what they're doing and who they're with and what time they come
home? A long and up-hill struggle to reintroduce patterns of courtship
and of gradualism in the development of relationships? Seminars for the
young on Modesty?
Not on your life. They will take the same action as they promised six
months ago. Children aged five (or three?) and upwards are to be taught
in school about the wrongness of violence against females.
Sex and drink need ritual. They need inherited and formalised
restraints. For, as Euripides taught the Athenians in their theatre,
Aphrodite and Dionysus are dangerous gods. If you don't believe me, ask
Hippolytus or Pentheus. When you fail to treat the divinities with
respect, they take you to the cleaners. What is wrong with our society
is not that the schools fail adequately to drive home the imperatives of
political correctness; it is that members of the cultural elite have in
the last generations prided themselves on destroying the restraints and
deriding the rituals; and now the gods have descended upon them, as
they did upon that Hideous Strength, and, my goodness, with what a
vengeance. And those elites don't like it. And the only remedy they
seem to be capable of discerning is the ancient mantra: "Doctor says
keep on taking the pills". But what the Modern Girl needs is not more
skill in contraception and better access to abortifacients, but careful
lessons on how to entertain the Modern Boy to Tea.
And there can never have been a society which knew so little about hedone - real
pleasure. I doubt if our culture of binge drinking delivers half the
pleasure of wine approached with respect and drunk in accordance with
archaic rituals (I know you will remember the Alec Guinness clergyman
character in Kind Hearts and Coronets reminding the visiting 'bishop' that "The decanter is with you, my Lord").
And I doubt if our culture of instant polybonk delivers a tenth of the
pleasure of wondering whether she really meant to brush your hand with
hers as she offered you another sandwich.
No comment needed.
Even in those binge-drinking sessions that are (decreasingly) a part of Japanese business culture, they observe the Confucian rules of hospitality, like that elders (or seniors in a company) pay for the drinks, and juniors (chronologically or on the org-chart) pour them.
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